Love is a well from which we can drink only as much as we have put in, and the stars that shine from it are only our eyes looking in. Stendhal As a psychotherapist I’ve always been intrigued by relationships and what makes them ‘tick’. So much so that my books emphasise their importance to our lives and our feelings of well-being. Psychologists have recognised  the correlation between the warmer, spring weather (that we’re supposed to be enjoying now!) and the upturn in relationships. Particularly those of a romantic nature, be…